Why are women whiners




















Women are admonished for whining about pain cramps, childbirth, blah blah blah. We are urged to quit whining about men and just settle. Teenage girls are told to stop whining about school, friends, family and their millions of extracurricular activities. How is that so many women are habitually whiny? I find it hard to believe that there is an overpopulation of female whiners. Instead, I believe society is far too eager to label women as whiners.

Considering a statement a whine instead of an expression of distress or concern gives the listener permission to walk away. Women who complain are losers who often got ejected from the corporate world and obviously did not work hard enough. This makes me cry. And to be candid, it makes perfect sense! Why would anyone like a feminist? But sadly this is the very mindset that keeps women down.

It looks very much like a psychological disease called disassociation. We disassociate when things are too painful for us to hear. In other words, we simply deny that women are actually being held back by the systems we have created. We simply decide to pretend everything it okay. It feels hugely better. Shopping Online.

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We simply respect their different way of communicating their feelings. Men tend to be more demonstrative, but beyond that, I think people have a hard time accepting when men express themselves in the stereotypical "girl" manner.

If we complain about anything, we're whining. We need to suck it up If our complaints are centered around women, we're misogynists. We hate women. We just want to tear strips off of women. It seems as though we not only have to express ourselves in an easily palatable fashion, but we have to justify our concerns as well. Do we try to try to make an appeal towards logic when we see an woman crying That comes from being licensed to be as forthcoming as you want about your feelings whatever they are.

As most guys know, when you've heard "suck it up, be a man" a couple of times, you start to hold back. Most people don't question a woman's womanhood if she is or isn't forthcoming about her emotions. Can the same be said for guys? Unfortunately not. Maybe the people that others know treat them differently, but I do not find that I am allowed to complain about everything or anything really just because I'm female - no matter how large, small, justified, etc.

The best I might get is a fellow female joining in with me, if she happens to agree with me. I think it's just that no one really likes to hear about other people's problems all that much. It's ok for a girl to be a tomboy, "one of the guys", and so on, but it's not ok for the opposite to happen. I've really never understood why this is.

The only things I can think of is that it's everyone being unconsciously homophobic no one wants to be girly because it is associated with being stereotypically gay , or it's everyone being unconsciously misogynistic no one wants to be girly because it is associated with being



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